WHY AM I STILL SINGLE? - Luke Goshen

  Why are my mates getting into a relationship and am not? Why am I the only left out? Why are they being showered with love and attention and am not?
Why do I have so many failed relationships?

 Why can't I groom my relationship into Marriage? What is wrong with me?  Is it because am still an undergraduate? Is it because I don't have a house yet? Is it because of my shape?  Is it because of my background? Is it because am not yet established as a man?  Is it because I can't speak good English?
What exactly is the problem? 😬 I hate myself 😥
   
 Dear, Singleness is a one in a lifetime exam, it is schooling to get qualified for marriage. Yes, you could be at the age required for you to get settled but are you ready? There are so many things you should be doing or must have done in order for you to have a healthy relationship that leads to a blissful marriage.
The thoughts of why you aren't there shouldn't shut your hearts to things you should be doing now to better yourself. It shouldn't make you be little yourself but rather look for ways to update yourself in where you have found your purpose.
       Being Single or not is not a sin and definitely not a lifetime sentence. It is a process, a time of self discovery, schooling, self mastery,and many wonderful things to do before inviting someone into your life. Jesus even made us know in Matthew 19:4
Saying "Have you not read that he who made them at the beginning made them male and female" That was his question to his disciples.. If your prayers of having a partner is finally answered, will you be ready?
     What do you know about the existence of a man and a woman as husband and wife? What you know will sustain you in marriage.
     Don't be in a haste, take time to nurture yourself so that you can nurture your #lover.

#Relationship_Therapist #LukeGoshen